Change doesn’t come overnight………..is a myth. I have as a matter of fact seen and felt myself changing within moments or overnight, I can probably pinpoint most of them. I can recollect moments, conversations, experiences and situations that have changed some element of my personality. They’ve been moments where I’ve been humbled, situations that have made me more confident, experiences that have made me stronger, and yes I know which did which.
Now, I’m not talking about a huge change that will manifest itself in your day to day interactions and everyone will notice something’s different, that hasn’t been the case each time but it’s a change that can be felt and that can be held on to in a certain way. The process can make you smile, make you feel gutted or it can make you go Aha! It’s like someone’s put a sticky note on your wall or maybe re-varnished it, it doesn’t significantly change the room or the feel of it but it’s still something not there before.
And it’s slightly weird how I always feel slightly good when I have a moment like this, it makes me feel like I’m growing, I’m not stuck in a rut, something’s changing, something’s happening, something that can help me move forward or let go or survive, whichever it is. So, my advice would be this, keep your hearts and minds open in order to identify moments and experiences like these and maybe they’ll give you hope like they do to me.
Happy exploring!
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I had a moment like this the other day, a, “hm” moment. Where you sit back and say finally realize you’ve let something go. Such a great feeling. It’s nice to see it put into words by someone else
yeah it is.
Thank you!